I make kids sad

J1:"I need to go potty!"
me: "ok! go potty!"
J1: "I'm all done. I don't need to wash my hands."
me: "um, yes you do. That's the rule. When you go potty, you wash your hands."
J1: (walking back to the bathroom with his bottom lip out and head down) "you make me so sad momma."
me: "that's my job kiddo."